tim said:
But ignorance affects people's lives. Real people. Imagine your best friend. Really stop and think about them. Now, imagine that they are here on a visa. They got the visa a year ago. They came here to go to college. They could have gone somewhere else. When they came here, they had no worries about getting to go home at Christmas to see their family. Now they are worried that they cannot get back into the country if they ever leave. They are worried they won't be able to finish college here and should have made a different choice. Their significant other lives here. You, their best friend, lives here. And they are feeling very unwanted by our country.
You know that we've already had this discussion, yet you bring it up like we haven't. Is the conversation going to keep going in a circle? I agree that the ban has problems and it shouldn't have affected people here on a visa.
I've seen immigration issues affect people very close to me.
I had a friend visit her family in Iran about 6 years ago. When she was there, something happened and she couldn't come back for around 1 full year. Her 4 year old daughter was still here, so she got separated from her daughter. It sucks, but I felt that she took a big risk when she went to Iran that this might happen. Anyways, I don't want to see that stuff happen.
I had a friend/business partner who's wife went to Korea on vacation. When she came back, the agent noticed a mistake on her visa. They sent her back to Korea. It took 4 years for her to come back. It destroyed my business. I don't want to see that happen.
Hopefully the new EO will make it very clear that none of these people who are on visa programs or here legally get affected.
tim said:
Anytime some white person looks at them funny, they don't know if they have food on their chin or if that person hates immigrants and is about to kick the shit out of them.
Because only white people would do something like that. Kinda hypocritical. If you are going to go there, then why not go there in both scenarios? Is it unreasonable to understand people being afraid of people from a violent region that hates the US and follows a violent religion. Yes, that religion may not be so violent in other countries, but the religion is pretty violent in that region. That's what the refugees are running away from.
tim said:
Maybe you personally don't hate immigrants. But all this vague blaming immigrants stirs up those who do. It makes them think that they are okay feeling that way. It makes them bolder with their hate.
Perhaps, if the country was better off and not so stressed out, people might have a better outlook. Right now they see the government trying to squeeze more taxes out of them as jobs are being taken and more welfare is being handed out. The government has been boasting how great the economy is, yet it's getting harder and harder for people to afford things. They see companies like Disney, Socal Edison, and even state Universities have their employees train foreign replacements before they are laid off. People tend to clump all those things together. Maybe we should pause and try to fix things and give our people peace of mind before we worry about others. Maybe.
tim said:
Your ignorance and lack of effort to change such is not a good reason to make America become a selfish, shitty country. I will fight hard to not let that happen. Many, many others will fight, too. I will not let ignorance and fear ruin this country that I love.
A needy person asks you for money. You look in your wallet and have $25. You give him $5. How generous. He then asks for the $20. You say "no". How can you be so
selfish and shitty that you don't give that needy person the money?
That doesn't make us shitty. It makes you shitty for thinking that we are a shitty country because you didn't get your way. It makes you a shitty person for not trying to be objective and understand your neighbors. Look, you may very well be right, but you need to understand how your people feel. Why do they think a certain way? Are they assholes because they are ignorant? Do you throw out their votes/opinions because you disagree with them?