[quote author="mikeirvine"]trust me I understand what you BK, Panda are talking about ....
I start looking for a home in redondo beach in 2006, I can't get much there. My budget at that time was 650k to 700k and I can't get anything at that time. The price is too high and I believe the market will crash and it did .... and much cheaper now in LA. But something happened in LA that I decided it not a safe place for my family, I even think of moving out of the US at that time.
When I move to Irvine more than a year ago, I want to spend only 500k to 600k for a condo in Irvine as I prefer the water and felt that Irvine is boring ... I rather save my money to buy another older home near the water later and fix it up.
I love laguna beach but it cost around 1.3 mil to get a 2000 /sf with no back yard. I drove there almost every weekends in the morning and nite for a few months. I found my small dream home but it was unfinished and they want all cash. I know at that point I can't afford that as I will put my family in a lot of stress.
Only until recent months, I began to like Irvine .... mainly because my wife and kid are very happy here. The new homes start building and it not cheap but it more affordable compare to where I really want a home near the water.
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No matter what our stories are, I learn a lot here and thanks. Really hope you guys found what you are looking for.
Mike
[quote author="ck"]
Not at all, Mike....even though we all may not agree --- its good to talk about what is on our mind. It's all a process. I have learned so much from so many here. Trust me, I understand exactly what you want for your family, its the same thing I want for mine. Like Panda said, its all a process or a journey. It takes time to figure out what is going to be the right thing for us.
Mike, while I don't like the price you paid for the house --- I respect that you can afford it and are therefore doing right by your family. Exactly as I am doing for mine. I know I really can't comfortably afford what I hope to provide for my family in Irvine, so I'll go somewhere I can --- because I refuse to put my wife or daugther through financial stress.
I hope others who are reading this thread and maybe not as financially secure as Mike (maybe more like me! <!-- s

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And this is coming from Mr. and Mrs. Irvine (CK and wife). Although some people might call us Mr. and Mrs. Louis Vuitton, but that's another story.[/quote][/quote]
Mike, are you sure you were looking in the right places in Laguna Niguel? I helped one of my buyers find a gorgeously upgraded 3,000sf+ home in a gated community for less than $270/sf. I see a lot of resales go in the $275-$300/sf some with big yards and views. Also, there are several gorgeous Moulton Ranch (Laguna Hills) homes with views to die for that sold for $280-$290/sf. I have several buyers who make $200-$400k/yr and they don't even have Irvine on the radar scene because they believe it is overpriced and nothing really makes it special. Other cities provide much better options for them....homes with larger lots, little-to-no Mello Roos, gorgeous views, and good schools. I do have a handful of buyers that will only buy in Irvine but there's nothing out there right now. It really is a shame that folks like CK won't be living in Irvine. When it comes time for me to buy, I probably won't be buying in Irvine either even if I did have $800k cash.