[quote author="irvine_home_owner" date=1220761660][quote author="irvinesinglemom" date=1220699329]freedom got it exactly right. My snide response is because, whether or not you intended it, your proposal for "every family home" needing these things is horribly elitist. Maybe if you had called it "everyone's dream home" or even better, YOUR dream home, it wouldn't have been so bad. But I can tell you that as written, your proposal is ridiculous and off-putting. Hence, my snarky response.</blockquote>
Hmm... I guess I should capitalize the words "I think" in the title.
Usually... in normal conversation, that usually implies "my opinion"... but I guess in this particular forum, you need to be more exact (or use the word "wish"?).
And actually my list is not outlandish nor am I from another dimension.
I live in Irvine (hence my screen name) and our current residence has all of the above except for the walk-in pantry. It has a pseudo vanity for the Mrs. and the laundry room isn't really a separate area as it is the pass-through to my 3-car wide garage.
I've been looking at model and resale homes for the last 10 years and I'm just surprised by how poorly designed many of these homes are.
The point of the thread wasn't to say "oh look at this ridiculous wish list" or to "off-put" anyone... it was merely to get other opinions on whether ot not these things are what everyone else thinks should or should not be in a family home (but I guess I need to direct it to a minority who can "afford" this type of home in Irvine).
I'm not being elitist, I just happened to buy prior to the boom... I'm just trying to figure out why most of these $1mil+ homes don't have what I **THINK** are good features for any family (esp if you can afford that price range).
I've posted in many other forums and I have to say that this one is probably one of the most hostile I've come across. Why are many of you so snarky to begin with? Is it because I'm new here? Is that how you guys treat new people?
I would think that the explanations I'm getting now should have been the lead-off posts... not the "Oh... excuse my rudeness... this is why I belittled your opinion" ones.
Or do I not understand that usually forums such as these are supposed to be a place where people express their opinions?
This is the second time I've posted and received this type response... I guess I'm not one of the "cool kids" yet.</blockquote>
I will have to back ISM on this one.
Your initial post came across as snobish.
What every family home should <u>have?</u>
Maybe it wasn't your intent, but that's how it came across.
What you listed are luxuries, not necessities - hence the snarky responses.
Maybe this is what you were intending for a thread:
<a href="http://www.irvinehousingblog.com/forums/viewthread/446/">What Kind of Home Design Do You Prefer?</a>