I think any place will be ideal for me if I have all the people I love around me

But dream home would look like this..
Loft.. with exposed red brick wall.. with huge windows.. mid century modern furniture.. white-white-white all over except for walls that will be gray and have one accent wall in a "pop" color like tangerine, cobalt blue..A floor to ceiling book wall with an attached ladder. Comfy Eames chair, and sheep skin to keep my feet warm. Coffee. That is my ideal space.
ETA: Wine cellar and a detached home office too.
We saw a property in Tustin with a main house and in-law unit- that could have been a good office space. Wine cellar.. nope- haven't seen one in Orange County mostly because that doesn't fall into our budget.
Came close to my dream when we saw an Eichler, but then there are too many other parameters that affect the decision right now.
When I saw a few houses in Yorba Linda, I was sold on the views, the lot size, the 3 car garage.. For 900K, they were selling a dream
