[quote author="Cubic Zirconia"]
[quote author="roundcorners"]
guilty as charged...[/quote]
I wrote a post, and on second thoughts, didn't hit reply.
Trace, please let your friend know

I did the same mistake with the first one. Either I looked fat (as I would discover in my later years, I was still very thin), or the hair was a mess (pleasures of motherhood, as I would notice later), or there was no time to put on some makeup (when I have lot of time now, I could have enjoyed looking at those pictures). It didn't matter then, but after a few years, when I sat down to look at the old pictures, there was no me. No record of how I looked, how I felt. Corrected that mistake with the second one- no matter how bad or how tired I look, I pose for a picture. Because now I have understood that it doesn't matter how I look,, my family and friends just want to see me.
I wish someone had told me that right when the first one was born

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I would have said something about Hanukkah if it were my friend, but I saw it on Facebook as a comment to my friend's status (by someone I don't know), so it would probably be obnoxious if I made a comment.
CZ, thanks for the above about the pictures...very wise. I grimace at pictures of myself taken when my son was a newborn. In one of them, I'm holding the baby and looking so lost and confused...of course I'm wearing dirty clothes and my hair is a mess and there is a breast pump in the background...but the look on my face is so priceless. I look terrible, and I hated that picture at the time, but now I treasure it.
Even though my son is almost 2, I still often try to skip out on pictures because I always look like a disheveled mess. I guess it's good that my husband ignores my pleas and takes pictures of me anyway! <!-- s

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