stepping_up said:
OK, so Skippy was a little annoying, ok, maybe a lot, but I am going to be frank here.... well, y'all know I'm a woman, so I'll be Frankette..... I did see a total double standard in the chastisations. The "in" crowd was able to say things equal or worse insult wise and not get condemned. I agree, his arguments did not make sense and he was a bit rude, but many of you are rude with your snark. If he was banned, then it makes me think that this board is really only for the insiders. Let's face it, the people who are continually shunned go away on their own and don't require banning.
Skipper would have either left on his own or perhaps even managed to tough it out enough to get some acceptance. There are a number of us who had tough inductions, but ultimately have become part of the community. IHO? USC? Heck, I came on here swinging my bear claws, but toughed it out while reading/educating myself. Anyway, the guy wasn't very pleasant, but Winex was worse and he didn't get banned... just left on his accord. I think Skippy should have been given the same opportunity to either learn a little about how to properly debate (and maybe even where this crazy market may lead) or leave on his own accord. If it weren't for so much double standard, I wouldn't have said a word.
I respectfully disagree. IR scolded me twice in the way that I handled skippy and the way that I handled Robert. I can dig it up and quote it if you like. This happens a lot when things like this go down, people forget that while he may have been "attacked" the one attacking got scolded just the same. The difference being once scolded, I took the high road and starting following the rules. Skippy didn't and in fact his "attacking" became even worse after several warnings over and over and over again. I even had to edit his malicious posts because they were so personal and offensive.
And personally I am getting tired of the double standard accusation, when clearly there is evidence that points otherwise. It's like everyone wants to focus on the bad, and never see the good points. The double standard accusation is the same thing that many are doing right now. Funny, that no one remembers IR scolding me. Funny, that as soon as I started to behave like an adult and the way a moderator should, I still get accused as having a double standard. Sorry, but skippy got warned (SEVERAL TIMES AND REPEATEDLY BY MORE THAN ONE MODERATOR), and I got a warning too, but I started behaving and he didn't. The only double standard here is everyone accusing me/us of a double standard when we have followed the rules. All he had to do was take the high road, and start acting like a respectful adult. I did, and if I didn't then I should have been banned too. But guess what? When someone calls me out for bad behavior, I correct it. That is why I am still here and skippy isn't.
I think it sucks that skippy is gone, he was one bull who actually would post some data... sometimes, and have a lively debate, but all he had to do was use an ounce of respect and he would still be here today.
FWIW, his banning was a consensus decision, and that includes people who are not moderators.