VOC is not RSM or Aliso Viejo because of one major difference. Location. AV and RSM are far from everything, so you have to rely on the shopping center that they provide as part of your daily routine. From Columbus Grove, you're not forced to turn and drive to the District. Shopping in Westpark is just as close. So from Columbus Grove you can still experience the love of TIC that seems to permeate this board.
As for the maturity of VOC, I can't say. The area that I like specifically is Columbus Grove - Tustin. The area is very spread out, lots of wide sidewalks and trees, cul-de-sacs, and open areas. Madison and Ciara (my target communities as prices fall) both have front porches and good sized lots, its a really lovely neighborhood IMO. I'm really not understanding the insistence on TIC communities, when places like Portola Springs and Woodbury are very overbuilt, busy and unnattractive. Woodbury feels like a zoo to me, and PS is just odd. I'd much rather be accessible to the Culver/Jamboree area than out East of the 5 freeway. I'd encourage anyone to drive through a built out Ciara street, then compare to Las Colinas and Mille Fleurs. It is just my "feeling" but CG has an openness that I don't get from the other two. I'm sure BK can explain the FengShui behind it, but when I went to Woodbury, I felt so enclosed I couldn't wait to leave, and I'm not claustrophobic.
Perhaps the difference for me is that I want a front yard, driveway, cul-de-sac, the whole deal. If were looking for a townhome I might have a different opinion.