irvinehomeowner said:
Or then again... maybe they just want to take home a souvenir from the IHO?
Like Elvis who handed out sweat-soaked silk scarves at concerts, some men do have this effect. Tom Jones was no stranger to it either. I agree with you that normally you would do a quick goodbye in that case and no, I wouldn't plant lips on a sweaty man UNLESS I just couldn't help myself. You may have hit on something there. From what you state it is quite possible that you are irresistible. It can not be ruled out. The good thing is, while you can't control their actions, you can control yours. Plus, having your wife nearby is always helpful. She'll protect you and believe me, she'd be much better at detecting another woman's intention than you would. I had this happen once when a "friend" tried to give my husband / fiance at the time a "customary" kiss under mistletoe at a holiday party. You've never seen me fly across the room so fast. I was prepared to wrestle her to the ground right then & there and rip her hair out. (He was prepared to make popcorn and watch.) Moral of the story: If she's not concerned, you shouldn't be. Her radar is much stronger than yours!