momopi
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I went to a high school with sub-par academic rating, but had a great teacher who taught culture over rote memorization. Students who took his French class didn't really learn how to speak the language, but end up studying abroad in France, marrying a French husband, and moving to France. I started reading Ast?rix le Gaulois comics and later went to culinary school to learn French cuisine. About 10 years ago I backpacked through France.
My teacher told me that he was religious when he was young. As he got older, he moved to a new town for college and went to a nearby Church. During Church service the Pastor brought out 2 buckets and an ice pick like tool. He lifted one bucket filled with water and preached about people who woke up on Sunday morning and didn't feel like going to Church, skipping one service is OK right? He punctured the bucket and showed water flowing out, this is like your soul for skipping Church. Skip another week? Bam! Another hole in the bucket. At that point he had an epiphany moment, "he is full of crap", and walked out.
After graduation, he moved to Long Beach and got a job working as a HS teacher in 1960s. By chance he encountered Quakers from Whittier and attended their Friend's Meeting. Over time he reconciled with his faith through Quaker-like spirituality in direct, personal relationship over religious dogma. He lived simply without extravagance, married a wheelchair bound wife and adopted a daughter. When he passed away, in accordance to his wishes we had a simple Quaker style meeting/pot luck at his home and buried his ashes under a tree without elaborate ceremony. I still fondly remember him taking a group of us to see Phantom of the Opera with the original cast (Michael Crawford & Sarah Brightman).
Though the Quaker community in Whittier has been in long decline, they are still around. If Church doctrine, religious dogma, and shrieking televangelists doesn't speak to you, perhaps the Quakers might serve a better alternative.
My teacher told me that he was religious when he was young. As he got older, he moved to a new town for college and went to a nearby Church. During Church service the Pastor brought out 2 buckets and an ice pick like tool. He lifted one bucket filled with water and preached about people who woke up on Sunday morning and didn't feel like going to Church, skipping one service is OK right? He punctured the bucket and showed water flowing out, this is like your soul for skipping Church. Skip another week? Bam! Another hole in the bucket. At that point he had an epiphany moment, "he is full of crap", and walked out.
After graduation, he moved to Long Beach and got a job working as a HS teacher in 1960s. By chance he encountered Quakers from Whittier and attended their Friend's Meeting. Over time he reconciled with his faith through Quaker-like spirituality in direct, personal relationship over religious dogma. He lived simply without extravagance, married a wheelchair bound wife and adopted a daughter. When he passed away, in accordance to his wishes we had a simple Quaker style meeting/pot luck at his home and buried his ashes under a tree without elaborate ceremony. I still fondly remember him taking a group of us to see Phantom of the Opera with the original cast (Michael Crawford & Sarah Brightman).
Though the Quaker community in Whittier has been in long decline, they are still around. If Church doctrine, religious dogma, and shrieking televangelists doesn't speak to you, perhaps the Quakers might serve a better alternative.