Overwhelmed is certainly the right word. Those tactics would make a lot of used car salespeople blush. If you're looking for inputs from "professionals", look elsewhere. Professionals are authentic, and do not need to deceive or fib to further their goals, nor do they act like success hinges on crafting multiple strong business relationships within a couple days (of posting on a web forum, no less). I imagine the only scenario in which a new member getting RE biz leads via PM (some from guests without accounts, no less!) is if both Deuce and USC are so busy they start to turn down clients.