roundcorners_IHB
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I wrote about this before, at around month 4; but now we have just about enough! Our son is approaching six month on the 8th. We are tired, he is getting so heavy and his sleep is actually getting worse.
His night time sleep has always been the best. He can go at least one night out of the week without waking up. We feed him at around 6:45; and start soothing him around 7pm. He usually goes down without a fight and would sleep until 6am. 2-3 nights out of the week he would wake up once; and the other 2-3 nights he would wake up more than once.
The day time sleep is what is killing us! Now we have been trying the Weissbluth method from Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child. He recommends the child not be awake more than 2-3 hours in the day, and recommend three naps, morning, early-afternoon and late afternoon. As best as we can remember, he has NEVER kept a perfect day. He fights EVERY nap time with protest crying. Lately as soon as he goes down, the crying would start almost 10-15 minutes later. I would sooth again, holding, rocking, jiggling, shushing and patting, sometimes for hours!
Let me say that he absolutely need every nap; he just looks so tire and grumpy, and hyper when he misses one nap. The worst case days are when his naps get consistently shorter and shorter where by the end of day, he is inconsolable from the protest crying, mixed in with grumpy crying. Although not necessary correlated, his day time sleep usually affects his night time sleep. The better he sleeps during the day the better at night.
Up to this point, we have not wanted to let him cry it out. We understand that babies can?t self-sooth under a certain age. But now we might consider that an option. Weissbluth does not rule out crying it out; and some of you guys mention the Ferber Method. Here is what I understand that method to be: 1) Provide identical sleep ritual. 2) Put the baby down awake, tired but not asleep. 3) If protest, make brief appearances at increasing intervals (add five minutes each time).
What are your experiences? Any alternatives! HELP?
His night time sleep has always been the best. He can go at least one night out of the week without waking up. We feed him at around 6:45; and start soothing him around 7pm. He usually goes down without a fight and would sleep until 6am. 2-3 nights out of the week he would wake up once; and the other 2-3 nights he would wake up more than once.
The day time sleep is what is killing us! Now we have been trying the Weissbluth method from Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child. He recommends the child not be awake more than 2-3 hours in the day, and recommend three naps, morning, early-afternoon and late afternoon. As best as we can remember, he has NEVER kept a perfect day. He fights EVERY nap time with protest crying. Lately as soon as he goes down, the crying would start almost 10-15 minutes later. I would sooth again, holding, rocking, jiggling, shushing and patting, sometimes for hours!
Let me say that he absolutely need every nap; he just looks so tire and grumpy, and hyper when he misses one nap. The worst case days are when his naps get consistently shorter and shorter where by the end of day, he is inconsolable from the protest crying, mixed in with grumpy crying. Although not necessary correlated, his day time sleep usually affects his night time sleep. The better he sleeps during the day the better at night.
Up to this point, we have not wanted to let him cry it out. We understand that babies can?t self-sooth under a certain age. But now we might consider that an option. Weissbluth does not rule out crying it out; and some of you guys mention the Ferber Method. Here is what I understand that method to be: 1) Provide identical sleep ritual. 2) Put the baby down awake, tired but not asleep. 3) If protest, make brief appearances at increasing intervals (add five minutes each time).
What are your experiences? Any alternatives! HELP?