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I thought it would be interesting to share the close calls we've experienced in the last few years--be it financial or personal--and perhaps look back on them and laugh...or count your blessings.



Considering the nature of the Irvine Housing Blog, I'll start off with a housing close call:



1. Sometime around 2006, an acquaintance and owner of a local cafe next to my workplace, who recently purchased a new home in oceanside, almost managed to convince me about how buying a home with an interest-only loan was preferable to "just paying rent" on my apartment. Why? Because you're banking guaranteed appreciation. His proof? He just made a "ton of money" on the sale of his last house thanks to recent appreciation, and "hey, when it comes down to it, everybody wants to live in Southern California!"



The aforementioned homeowner is now underwater and trapped in his house, stuck commuting on the 5 freeway from Oceanside to San Clemente every day.



2. Back in early 2008, I was going to use a significant amount of my down payment to purchase stock in Toyota and Washington Mutual. Why? I was a big fan of Toyota cars and trucks (still am) and WaMu was great because of their service and free checking. I ultimately decided the stock market was too risky to invest in for something as important as my down payment.



Since then, Toyota's stock has dropped 52%, and well, we all know what happened to WaMu.



3. About three years ago, I was riding my mountain bike in San Diego with a group of riders who were much more skilled and experienced than myself. They were doing all kinds of awesome things: sweet jumps, technical lines, harrowing descents. I promised myself I would not get caught up in the excitement of the moment. Upon approaching one rocky segment of the trail, where all of the other riders before me were taking turns picking up speed and jumping 10-15 foot distances, catching mad air, getting it all on video, and giving each other high-fives, I conservatively and analytically rode the segment of trail, dissecting the obstacles like a surgeon and navigating the rocks at slow speed, only to miss one last granite rock the size of a basketball and be pole vaulted into the air, flipping forward over my handlebars, and landing head first onto the ground with my feet in the air. I heard a sharp and powerful crack in my neck. The blow felt like a fork lift dropped a palat of bricks on my head. Upon opening my eyes I heard a voice say: "Can you hear me? Don't move!" One of the riders was an EMT and evaluated me. I didn't know what day it was, what time it was, or where I was. I had suffered a severe concussion and my brain was swelling. I was shaken up, but alright; no broken bones and I rode the remaining 5 miles back to the truck.



Later that day I learned that one of the riders in our group had a girlfriend who broke her neck on the exact same section of the trail only two weeks prior, and had to be rescued by helicopter. Thankfully, I am still riding today, and will be riding this year's Vision Quest on Saturday, one of the longest and most challenging mountain bike races in the USA.
 
Some of IPOs RE close calls...



Went under contract on a house at KB's Madison in VoC for close to $1M in Jan 2007 but was smart enough to bail out. Selling for $800Kish now.



Summer 2007, went under contract on a house in Walnut, $945K I think it was, 2700sf, but backed out before the deposit check got cashed. Selling now for perhaps $775K.



Went under contract on a house in Tustin Field, also in Summer 2007, $935K for 2900sf, and backed out after two weeks or so. Had inspections done and used the repair request process to jump out. House today is worth perhaps $750-775K.



No contract, but went through five counter offers on a place in Walnut, 2700sf, in Fall 2007, with our highest being $930K. They wouldn't go below $960K... House would sell today for $775-800K probably. Since I rent across the street from this one, I look at that house everyday and smile.



Poor Deuce represented me on 2 of the 4.
 
[quote author="ipoplaya" date=1236356258]Some of IPOs RE close calls...



Went under contract on a house at KB's Madison in VoC for close to $1M in Jan 2007 but was smart enough to bail out. Selling for $800Kish now.



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<a href="http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090306/ap_on_bi_ge/kb_home_backdating_5">KB Homes?</a>



Hey POITG, good luck in the Race Dude!!
 
Back in 2007 I nearly purchased two condo units for us to live in (mainly for parking). But thankfully everything did NOT work out. I was purchasing two units 375k each, now they are going for about 220 each. So about a 150k each. Sheesh.



No other really close calls, unless you call dating a string of "crazy" women (bi-polar, compulsive liars, cheaters.... :( ) Although I did have that time when I was exposed to a fissle core when i worked at a major lab.... yea, 15 seconds of exposure was a lifetime of radiation... joy.







-bix
 
[quote author="ipoplaya" date=1236356258]Some of IPOs RE close calls...



Went under contract on a house at KB's Madison in VoC for close to $1M in Jan 2007 but was smart enough to bail out. Selling for $800Kish now.



Summer 2007, went under contract on a house in Walnut, $945K I think it was, 2700sf, but backed out before the deposit check got cashed. Selling now for perhaps $775K.



Went under contract on a house in Tustin Field, also in Summer 2007, $935K for 2900sf, and backed out after two weeks or so. Had inspections done and used the repair request process to jump out. House today is worth perhaps $750-775K.



No contract, but went through five counter offers on a place in Walnut, 2700sf, in Fall 2007, with our highest being $930K. They wouldn't go below $960K... House would sell today for $775-800K probably. Since I rent across the street from this one, I look at that house everyday and smile.



Poor Deuce represented me on 2 of the 4.</blockquote>
Nice.



I don't think StanPac or WL will deal with us any more after backing out on 3 different sales cycles, 2 under contract. The first 2... we backed out ourselves getting cold feet... the last one... we were all in because of a $300k price drop for the same one we were interested in about 2 years before... fortunately the really stringent credit guidelines kicked in and we unqualified by a few basis points. We probably could have qualified with another lender but am glad we decided to wait. Don't know what those new homes are worth now... but thanks to IHB, IR, IPO and usc... we live in a better location and are waiting to see how this all plays out.
 
I've had many financial close calls but they pale in comparison to the big one...



In Sept 2001 I debated between choosing the morning or afternoon flight from DC-Washington Dulles to LAX on my way to a Gartner Conference in Palm Springs. I worked for a big consulting firm at the time and there was some conference on web services/SOA architecture/something like that. I wanted to take the morning flight because woo hoo then I'd experience a beautiful CA Autumn day vs. a day in the office. In the end being a responsible person I chose the afternoon flight so I could work most of that Tuesday before the conference started on Wednesday.



The morning flight <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/American_Airlines_Flight_77">AA Flight 77</a> ended up crashing into the Pentagon.
 
[quote author="Priced_Out_IT_Guy" date=1236337951]Thankfully, I am still riding today, and will be riding this year's Vision Quest on Saturday, one of the longest and most challenging mountain bike races in the USA.</blockquote>




See you at the finish line! I'm number 425 on the baby race (only 45 miles, 8500 feet of climbing)



(he is doing 57 miles, 11,500 feet)
 
Sorry for the semi-thread killing 9/11 reference there Priced-Out-IT-Guy.



I actually don't consider it THAT close a call. Had I actually booked that flight and missed it or had to reschedule it THAT would have close. Crap - that would still freak me out 7 + years later. Death is death but I think the added trauma of the events of that day and the constant reminders would make it that much harder for my family.



I'm a work dork who pretty much always took the late flights... even on Friday's from the client site back home. It was just odd that in that instance in particular I really tried to will myself to play hooky a bit. You know, "So-and-so would totally do it. Why can't I?" kind of a thing.



The fact is dumb luck kept me off that plane. Dumb luck similarly kills and spares people in accidents and violent incidents every day. Thinking about it can make you crazy. I don't know how people in dangerous careers like Trooper or the armed forces, coal miners, etc. do it.
 
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