His answer? “The Church.“ When I pressed him what he meant by that, he said, “You know my religion is my life.“
Trooper said:I can't help but shake my head at the foolish churches/religions who don't court our inclusion. For the most part, we are DINKS with lots of $$$$. Are you kidding me ?!
Trooper said:My values equal or exceed those of yours WINEX.
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WINEX said:Trooper said:My values equal or exceed those of yours WINEX.
That's really a ridiculous statement. It's not possible to objectively compare your own value system to that of anyone else. By definition, you are perfectly comfortable with all of your values. But the very fact that you were surprised that people didn't act in a hypocritical manner for financial benefit does say something about your values. Determining whether or not placing money over principle is right or wrong is a subjective judgment. But I certainly know what my own value system says about that kind of thing.
Trooper said:Do you actually know any Mormons on a personal level?
Yes, I do. One is a co-worker who I've known for 10 years. We are close, but not to the point that we do things socially together.
Actually, this is a perfect example of what I'm saying. After Prop 8 passed, we had a discussion about it. I asked him how he voted and he said, "you know how I voted." (which of course, meant Yes on 8) I then asked him, how and why, knowing me for so many years.....would he do that? His answer? "The Church." When I pressed him what he meant by that, he said, "You know my religion is my life." I didn't ask him to elaborate further. We will no longer be friends and I explained exactly why to him. I mean, why would I be friendly with someone who believes that I am a second class citizen ?
The other example is that Manager from El Coyote restaurant in Hollywood, where they have several Prop 8 protests. She always welcomed gay customers, but donated to the Yes on 8 campaign. When it was discovered, she announced that it was due to the fact the Mormon Church told their followers to donate. She then went on to explain that she LOVES the gays, but she couldn't go against her church. WTF !
To me, that screams lemming.
Oh, and here comes The Vatican's stance: Gays don't need protection
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The Vatican has come out against a United Nations resolution that calls on all governments to decriminalize homosexuality.
Let’s not forget that MLK was extremely conservative in his religious beliefs; he was a Baptist minister.
xsocal land merchant said:Let’s not forget that MLK was extremely conservative in his religious beliefs; he was a Baptist minister.
Didn't he have a mistress or two? Again I just can't go down the religious line based on the high amount of hypocracy involved.
Just the facts.
xsocal land merchant said:Let’s not forget that MLK was extremely conservative in his religious beliefs; he was a Baptist minister.
Didn't he have a mistress or two? Again I just can't go down the religious line based on the high amount of hypocracy involved.
Just the facts.
Ignore them. I told you before, there is no way you are ging to convince them to accept you. Learn lessons from past successful civil rights action, namely focus on those who are actually taking away your rights and not those who merely advocate it. Yes, it's going to be dangerous but history is filled with those who willingly gave their lives for what they believed in and, if you haven't noticed, that tactic works. If push comes to shove and you are willing to die for your cause, it's a safe bet that the other side is going to back down as soon as it costs them more than marking an x in a box. On that point, you are mistaken about something: the media goes where the action is and had the march on 11/5 occured along the southbound lanes of the 605 instead of Hollywood, you would have gotten just as much (if not more) media attention. It's not enough to march in safe areas where people tolerate your presence, you have to get in the face of the people who took away your rights and demand that you be treated equally, you have to be willing to go to jail, and you have to be prepared to fight for your civil liberty because no one is just going to give it to you. California history has now proven that, multiple times.Trooper said:Ted Haggard comes to mind......
three sheets, what would you propose my community do with the LDS ? Trying from within doesn't work, gays get ex-communicated. Heck, even Mormon heteros who support us get ex-communicated.
I would be interested to hear your suggestions.
What’s your point? Is he less religious because he had an affair? Most religious figures were considerably more flawed than MLK. Most secular ones too… Hypocrisy and evil is a human condition, not a religious human condition.