My best friend is white, and he needs help.

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I was being facetious, but then again, as was pointed out in the picture, looks aren't everything either.
 
<p>JPX,</p>

<p>According to a study documented <a href="http://www.slate.com/id/2177637/nav/tap3">here</a> your friend may have a shot with an Asian woman. </p>

<p><strong>Please note these are the author's words, not mine</strong></p>

<p><em>"We found no evidence of the stereotype of a white male preference for East Asian women. However, we also found that East Asian women did not discriminate against white men (only against black and Hispanic men). As a result, the white man-Asian woman pairing was the most common form of interracial dating—but <u>because of the women's neutrality, not the men's pronounced preference</u>."</em></p>
 
<p class="MsoNormal">The guy is looking for some practical advice and guidance to help his friend. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">What’s with all the theory and empirical studies drivel. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">No need for graphs, pie charts, or a Case-Shiller study. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">This sounds like a conversation between Captain Picard and Data.</p>

<p>Some of you keyboard jockeys need to refrain from the data dump posts. </p>

<p>Step away from the textbooks and leave your dorm room for a moment.</p>
 
<p class="MsoNormal">Eff, </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">C’mon you know that stuff doesn’t work. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">I told you yesterday, it’s all about Tolle and the NOW, along with Nordic good looks! Ljungberg Baby</p>
 
<p>Practical Advice?</p>

<p>Have him go to places where Asian women go. Restaurants. Stores. Whatever. Then he can ask them out.</p>

<p>Is it really that hard? If he gets turned down, ask someone else. I don't think this process is different for Asian women than for any other race...</p>
 
I do not want to write a book and here is the bottome line. Most Asian women are filial to their parents. Parents really don't like white guy son in laws because they don't eat chicken feet and enjoy the aroma of shrimp paste. Your friend must look for Asian women with bad relatioship with their parents. Marrying a white guy is the ultimate rebellious attitute to their parents. Smart and academically accomplished Asian women is not in the rebellious group so don't look there. Look for Asian women at the gym. Demographic of fitness centers shows Asian Women seeing Asian Men are in the minority. LV is a good place but the relationship duration is a function of your friend's wallet thickness. Do not carry Acpme's wallet.
 
I'm going to be generous and actually put in a serious reply here. If anyone is offended by my comments, feel free to PM or e-mail me your flames in private.





LPX, if your friend is white and he is only physically attracted to Asian women, what he has is like a fetish, which explains the bashing here.





The majority of Asian Americans, myself included, are willing to date over ethnic lines. If the girl is willing to date you, she is giving you a chance. If she dumps you and say "oh I think my family wants me to marry <insert Asian nationality>", she's giving you a face-saving exit. It's called mercy killing.





Southern California is a very competitive dating environment. If your friend is only interested in dating a minority ethnicity, the supply/demand doesn't work in his favor. It's even worse if the girls here are repulsed by his "vibe". If he ends up dating or marrying someone who wants to be with him so she can rebel against her parents, that girl has issues and they'd probably get a divorce.





Hollywood and western mass media has generated some demand for foreign men overseas. In most East & SE Asian countries, women who actually prefer foreign men are in the minority (~20%), but there are many millions of them and even a small % adds up to a lot. The supply of single foreign men there is very low, so the numbers work out in your favor.





I've visited many Asian countries, and the one that's most accommodating to foreigners is probably the Philippines. If Taiwan/Japan/etc people are generally antisocial in public and have to depend on mutual friend introduction or sign up with some dating service. In the Philippines you can go to a mall and chat up girls like a normal person, without them looking for an escape hatch in the first 3 seconds. Just make sure you avoid the red light districts.
 
<p><a href="http://stuffwhitepeoplelike.wordpress.com/2008/01/20/11-asian-girls/">http://stuffwhitepeoplelike.wordpress.com/2008/01/20/11-asian-girls/</a></p>

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<p>My wife is a hot asian. . . I cannot complain I second LM's assessment of Asian woman. . .my wife is in her early 30s and got carded at Vegas last year. </p>

<p>I think that you should let your friend date whoever he like. . .yes the parent-in-laws may be an issue but I do not think it is as big an issue as you think it is (esp. in Irvine). If your friend is a decent guy and makes good steady money, I do not see much of a problem. There is no guarantee that your friend will have any more luck finding a "white" wife than an Asian one.</p>

<p>I just would like to ask one thing of your friend. . .get an Asian to judge the "beauty" of the girl. In my experience, most of the asian girls that white guys date are unattractive (at least from an Asian guy prospective). </p>
 
<p>Most foreign brides ended up looking like a maid to their geek looking husband. Husband is almost twice the women's age. Decent looking white guys do not resort to the oversea solution. Women are more interested in the green card than their husbands.</p>
 
Man, I regret writing this thread. My best friend wouldn't be happy if he ever finds out that i wrote this thread. I was hoping to get some sound advice to help my friend, not to be some kind of joke. Anyways, that video from muff daddy is hilarious :) If this ever happened to me, my cute and beautiful asian wife would of beat the crap out of that white girl.
 
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