tmare_IHB
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I'm wondering how all of you decide which activities, sports or hobbies your children will become involved in. My son is only 5 and he's tried more things than I ever did in my entire childhood. So far it's been weekly swimming lessons since 14 months, 1 1/2 years of skills based (not competitive) soccer, fairy tale acting classes for 6 months, 1 tee ball season, Spanish classes, and he's been taking golf lessons for one month. I figured I'd let him try many things and then take his lead when it comes to narrowing it down. So far, he has enjoyed and been fairly good at everything, so we're having a hard time deciding what to do and what not to do. My son's best friend's older brother is in involved in competitive swimming and really enjoys it. We're trying to decide if we're willing to make a commitment to something like that since it involves practices 3-5 times a week, he's a great swimmer and I believe it encourages discipline and hard work, but is it just too much? How do you guys make these decisions? It may sound like he's always busy but it really isn't that way, he has a lot of down time and a lot of friends. Once Kindergarten starts maybe all of this stuff will be a bit more clear since time will be much more of an issue. I'm sure I sound like a crazy parent but I want to give my kids more opportunities to develop interests and skills than I had growing up.