stepping_up said:
Dude, take a chill pill and while you're at it read the guys posts. He didn't tell you costs, but he did say they would like to do something about the 25 year old linoleum, maybe some new carpet and do something with the kitchen.
And that could be $5000, or it could be $100K. It kinda matters. If it’s five grand I don’t care.
I don't have ESP, but I did read his posts. No_Vas, I love you and all, but man you were especially hard on this guy and I don't understand why.
Because the forum rules allow asking questions and I think the guy is making a mistake? I'm sure he's furious with me. If that drives him to seek profesional help (like a fee only planner) then wonderful.
I have enough to do with my own business right now and my 'consulting project' up North.
I didn't get anything from him that indicated over leveraged.
I love you to girlfriend, but we’re reading different things different.
C Delroy Spuckler said:
We're a bit tight on cash, so we were thinking a HELOC might be worth considering right now... we're still just tossing around ideas, curious if anyone else is thinking the same right now and if they have any ideas.
Tight on cash……
C Delroy Spuckler said:
Here's the deal, this is a temporary situation. The young'uns just graduated college. My wife and I decided as a gift to them we would pay off their student loans, so that they can start their life debt free and worry about getting a good job and being established professionally.
For the next few years, we're going to work on paying off their loans. We had alot of money in stocks and don't feel comfortable right now pulling eveyrthing out to pay for their loans... we felt it was best to pick a short term timeframe (3 years) to average out of the market and pay their loans off.
This is why we are tight (that and my wife’s shopping habits ).
took on a bunch of debt…….. planning on using the stock portfolio to pay off the debt………praying for a return in 3 years to pay off those loans…….wife overspends…….
Likewise, my daughter went into a specialty where it made more sense for her to go to a private school (USC). The loan was to cover the difference in tuition.
It costs $200K to send your kid to USC for four years! I know what it costs to send somebody to state school – I paid for my wife’s engineering degree ASSuming he set aside $100K this is a chunk of change. He didn’t say how much it is but one can assume it’s big because…….
We felt we can cover these loans in roughly 3 years, but that it would require some belt tightening for us short term, and that my wife would go back to work until we pay the loans off.
If the wife had to go back to work for 3 years to pay off the kids loans they assumed (took on, accepted responsibility for, whatever) this is no small token amount. That leverage counts.
I asked to begin with what's your LTV because if the guy is leveraged heavily, yeah, don't do it. His responses seem to indicate this is not an extremely wealthy man, but has done OK, lived simply and has not leveraged himself outside of his mortgage that he took on some 20 something years ago.
And if OP is Panda in disguise and I'm sticking up for him, then that's it, Panda can take a long walk off his short Irvine bridge!
This isn’t Panda. His UBB skilz would give him away. OP isn't overleveraged in his house. Given info he posted, it appears he is overleveraged in his life. Obviously I can't tell without digging into his financials. He needs professional help from a fee only Financial Planner.
tkaratz said:
Dude, if cost for labor and materials isn't your expertise than just stay quiet. I don't want an opinion from someone uses a visit to home depot six months ago as their construction index.
What the hell? Do you want me to go milk on you?