Eliot Spitzer

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Dude, all marriage no matter how much love is involved, is a form of servitude. That's a fact. If your wife didn't please you sexually and enough of it would you pay the bills?
 
<p>The classic marriage ceremony sez "to have and to hold". Both parties say it. It's the same language on a Deed. Here at least.</p>

<p>Buxom at bed and board used to be in there, but isn't any more.</p>
 
Spitzer might not have been cheating on his wife. A lot of couples lose sexual interest in each other but want to stay married for a variety of other issues (such as children, public reputation and personal fondness, all of which seem operative here.) It's fairly common for such couples to allow outside dalliances, typically with idiosyncratic rules. The Spitzers might have even had a rule that his dalliances had to be with high-priced hookers to minimize the chance of emotional involvement (I've known several cases where there were rules with that goal, although never that particular one) Or maybe he was just cheating on his wife. We just don't know.
 
<p>Not cynical (BTW, I very much love my wife), but you do modify your behavior significantly when you get married. You don't like in any whay shape or form the way you used to. That my friend, is a form of payment.</p>

<p>good luck</p>

<p>-bix</p>
 
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<p class="MsoNormal">The way I interpret “paying for it” is trying to buy what you can’t earn.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">IMO, powerful/ rich men are no different from regular guys. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Having money or possessing power does not make you immune. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">They suffer from a deficit in validation as well. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">No amount of validation will ever be enough; unable to validate themselves they supplicate and “pay” for approval and acceptance. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">It’s a form of ego-protection.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">These guys don’t possess the ability or skillset to attract and close hot chicks. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Just watch an episode of the Millionaire Match Maker on Bravo and you’ll see exactly what I mean.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Guys on that show are highly successful, in shape, and have a great life but lack the ability to attract women.


Therefore, they pay an enormous fee to be part of a club so they can be set up on dates and <strong>hope </strong>they're liked. </p>

<p>Instead of learning the ability to attract and “choose” who they want to be with. </p>
 
<p>The misogyny is running rampant on this thread. Can we just stick with "don't screw around when you are married and an elected official" and call it good? Because if you are going to look at marriage as a form of men paying women for sex, you might have to actually pay them their true worth for a change rather than just paying the bills.</p>

<p>What's the current rate on people willing to deal with the dubious personal hygiene habits of a middle-aged man 24/7/365? How much should it cost to get someone to actually give a damn about how your day went and how much traffic sucked? I don't think a 5-minute romp when you are in the mood for getting your rocks off plus food, shelter, clothing, transportation, and the occasional card on Valentine's Day is gonna cut it in the compensation area.</p>

<p>Get a clue guys. You pay for a hooker because it's quick, easy, exciting, and because there is NO WAY IN HELL a woman that hot will ever sleep with you based on who you are as a human being. You get married because you got lucky enough to find someone that not only finds you attractive enough to sleep with you, but is also willing to stick around when you finally reveal that onions give you rancid gas, or that you consider toe-nail clipping an annual event, or that your favorite thing to do with your dirty clothes is hide them in the closet. You think a hooker is going to do that for what you pay your wife? Really?</p>

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<p>Its funny, one of the classes I had in college was the psychology of sex. Part of the reading was prostitution, and the teacher (a real babe in her own right) broughy in a real call girl (yes, she had to pay for her time....). She said she charged 500-1000hr or whatever was negotiated. She stated that she enjoyed sex with men and the money was just a bonus. But she also stated that she had to at least enjoy the time with the man otherwise she would not be there. </p>

<p>In retrospect she was VERY well spoken, intellegent, attactive and of course financially savvy (this was about 20 years ago...) (she OWNED her home as well as started other companies to earn her money).</p>

<p>Anyway good luck</p>

<p>-bix</p>
 
<p class="MsoNormal">"Obviously you are not married, you pay for it one way or the other. Realistically a pro is MUCH cheaper than any marriage."</p>

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<p class="MsoNormal">Thankfully, I’ve never thought about marriage or any relationship for that matter as a financial transaction or measured it in financial terms.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Rather, I view it in terms of providing “value”. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">My definition of value is all about contributing/offering something positive for the betterment of that relationship or interaction. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">In order to fully make worthwhile contributions, you must first associate yourself as having high value. Value is endless, why do you need a reason to give?</p>

<p class="MsoNormal"> </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Stay tuned, my next post will be about vibing out charisma</p>
 
Woot.com covered the Spitzer/call girl issue today on their podcast. If you've never listened to a woot podcast you're missing something special!
 
<p>Comparing to 30 years ago porn was available mostly in publications. Visual media was very limited in films and only the riches have access to the machines that played them. Theaters like the Pussy Cat were primarily the theatres that showed porn to the public. Many old movie palaces of the Golden era of the 1920-1930 fell to victim of neglect and no body wanted them so the owners sold them to the Pussycat chain. </p>

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<p>Many of these theatres were located in reputable quaint 1920 neighborhoods. As theatre attracted many men that dressed like Sherlock Holmes home owners living near by began to move out of the neighborhood they loved dearly. Mitchell Brothers Theatre was located in Floral Park, Pussy Cat in Old Town Anaheim, Fox in Old Town Fullerton, State in Old Town Pasadena, Wardman in Old Town Whittier, Art Cinema near Hancock Park, Alex in Glendale, The Mayan in Downtown LA, and Odyssey in Santa Monica and Lido in Balboa Island. These neighborhoods began to attract men with a common goal scared off residents and their children in these neighborhoods. </p>

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<p>As porn media became attainable through progression 8mm, beta, laser disc, vhs and DVDs, and download. Porn became private into people’s home and no longer a public exposure in seedy neighborhoods. Politicians’ needs were met and proposed to eliminate them as the theatres suffered economic hardship. Some escaped the wrecking ball like Fox in Fullerton, Alex, and the Mayan and the rest stood badly as the reminder of an ugly past therefore raved for future development progress. Old Town Anaheim, Floral Park and Fullerton are example of such a revival. </p>

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<p>As porn became much more graphic and degrading for women men who seek the service of an escort to play a role that most spouse and significant others would not compromise their dignity to fulfill. Porn is reaching a much younger generation today through the internet. Many unconventional ideas and imagination offered by porn brain washed men into dreaming for unrealistic, unattainable desire that is impossible to meet through a normal relationship. Men who seek escort have extremely high demands and visual and perceptual fetishes that only accessible by $$$$.</p>

<p>The Irony is that there are things that wives do that escorts won't do like laundry and vice versa for escorts a popular menu called bbbjcim.</p>
 
Major,



I watched it at Grauman Chinese in 1977. Back then top hit movies stayed in the theaters for over a year. Bruce Lee's movies for even longer from 1972-1979. His movies were played over and over and over at the Movie palaces on Broadway in Downtown LA. Se habla espanol. No more hi jacking this thread. I pay respect to ISM.



ps. I missed the real movie palace experience. There used to be multi layered drape and curtain spectacular show before the movies and some even have recorded pipe organ music.



Fox is still there waiting to be rescued.
 
>No more hi jacking this thread. I pay respect to ISM.





That's right! Let's get this thread back to the gutter where it belongs!
 
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