socal78
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GH said:very nice SoCal ..
Thanks. I just hope her expectation levels haven't been set too high. She seems to STRONGLY suspect it's me now. I really wanted this to be a secret and this is one reason why. Now, she is following me around the store on the clock & off the clock and asking that I donate canned food, children's clothing for all ages, and old shoes so she can ship them to her extended family in the Philippines. I'm feeling the pressure. It's a little bit uncomfortable. I can't really make a commitment because I'm already fully extended each month to helping with various things through church (which also, coincidentally, does benefit the Philippines anyway). I tried gently letting her know I would keep it in mind but that there are a lot of people all over -- in this country and in the world -- who also want help. I gave Mexico as an example. She said, no, the Philippines need it more than Mexico. Each example, I gave her, she came right back and said they, no, they need it more. She hasn't even been to the places I was describing so how does she know? Anyway. Awkward. :-\ Not sure what I'm going to do now.