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Oh no, Irvinesinglemom, I didn't mean it like that!!! Not at all. I'm sorry my phrasing came off that way. I'm lucky in that I'll engage strangers if I'm bored. If someone looks interesting, I'll just talk to them (doesn't have to be a guy). And sometimes when i talk to guys for...

Look, I agree torture, in general, is bad. But hard choices have to be made sometimes and if it truly comes down it, if it's the only way, then maybe in those rare circumstances it needs to happen. Leaving a backdoor, as sick as it is to think about, is probably necessary.

Church would involve getting up early on Sundays, wouldn't it? *sigh* I'm going to have to put in effort aren't I? Rats!! Actually, I haven't had trouble meeting guys and dating around here...it's finding the right one that's hard, ya know? Perhaps Obama will "spread the...

Oh! While I'm at it....Skek, Oscar, Optimus...is there some secret Conservative club I could join? I don't hate liberals, but I could pretend to.... Thanks again everyone for responding...this has made me laugh :-)

Hey, where's Panda? He's always gathering info...surely he knows where guys who likes conservative, Midwestern blonde chicks hang out. Thanks bv..but 18 is a little too young. I like 'em a 5 to 10 years older than myself...do you have a 35+ half brother or a step-uncle-once-removed?

Blackvault...thanks for the response. However, what you describe sounds like effort and work. Couldn't I just say "screw the bastard" and move on? Kidding. He was a great guy, just not for me. Fortunately, my confidence isn't shaken. I'm awesome :-)

Irvinesinglemom...really? There have to be some nice guys around Irvine! Statistically there must be! Where's bk? Doesn't he have some census data I could use right about now? :-) At the very least , IrvineRenter could track divorce-related foreclosures and give me heads up when a...

Thanks everyone. Tenmagnet and Trojanman have sufficiently scared me and I'm suddenly content to be single...... ;-)

I know the one you're talking about and totally agree it was poor of Warren. However, as I recall, the video cuts off after he says "I do" and in reality he elaborated on his meaning beyond those words. And we're still just talking about one interview and I think his point was not really that...

Thank you everyone for responding. I appreciate it very much!! I know it'll take some time to bounce back (good advise, Winex). I don't quite get why b/c this relationship needed to end. I guess what I'm really looking for is good ways to occupy my time until I adjust to being single...

Really? I just saw one very badly phrased CNN interview. Nothing else. And he did apologize for it. So, I don't buy that. I'd never heard of him before this, except to watch the Saddleback form with McCain and Obama but he seems like a pretty good fellow.

Only if you are determined to read it that way. It could very well be an apology for his inartfully phrased comments and a reminder for everyone on both sides of, well, any issue that disagreement should not devolve into disrespect. There sure was a lot of that this election cycle!!

4walls4me broke up with her boyfriend. For the best. But kinda sad and weird being alone again. How, in this little town of Irvine, does one do her best to SNAP OUT OF IT. All you happily married couples are bumming me out :-) !! I'm thinking of skipping my IAC gym and joining a...

What's your point with that one trooper?

Yeah, but I don't want Obama to be anyone else's president...really i just want him to be ours. He was elected to do what's best for the US. I don't mean you PeterUK (love you!), but I seriously think folks outside the US are going to actually be surprised that Obama doesn't put their...

I don't think so...not when you factor in the HUGE mello roos and association fees. Still too pricey.

Okay, but what is your plan. You keep saying what you would NOT do, but you haven't said what you would do. No fair saying one plan is bad if you don't offer a better one.</blockquote> It's not fair to criticize a plan if you don't a solution of your own? Tim!! Of course it's fair. If...

You're awesome, Trooper :-) But what I don't get is how attacking religion, the church, and fluffy, lovable Rick Warren is going to win anyone over to your side. I understand what you're doing from an emotional POV. Totally get that. But I don't see any tactical benefit. It just...

She did way better than I expected last night. I was impressed with her. She's a terrific role model for some of us and, as a woman, I'm inspired by her so far.

No_vaseline, leave the child out of it. Attack Palin all you want. But leave the daughter out of it. Don't go calling a 17-year child who's already in a difficult spot a floozy. Unless and until she steps onto the campaign trail actively partaking in the process, consider rising above...