socal78
Well-known member
I'm filing this under Health because I suppose it's emotional health.
I sometimes have trouble understanding the way men think. I have a pretty basic question for you men:
If a man does not get jealous of another guy flirting with his partner, does that mean he doesn't really care that much (about her)?
What I am told it means is that he so confident and secure in the relationship that he does not feel threatened by any other person. Since he is not one bit concerned, he doesn't react. I kind of get it and I kind of don't. If the tables were turned, I think most women would struggle to not react *at all* no matter how much they trust their partner. It's just a visceral response. Unless you really, truly, don't care what happens.
I sometimes have trouble understanding the way men think. I have a pretty basic question for you men:
If a man does not get jealous of another guy flirting with his partner, does that mean he doesn't really care that much (about her)?
What I am told it means is that he so confident and secure in the relationship that he does not feel threatened by any other person. Since he is not one bit concerned, he doesn't react. I kind of get it and I kind of don't. If the tables were turned, I think most women would struggle to not react *at all* no matter how much they trust their partner. It's just a visceral response. Unless you really, truly, don't care what happens.