<p>Shay,</p>
<p>Shortly after I found IHB and was going over some of IrvineRenter's analysis posts, the wife and I sat down and figured out exactly how much we were paying out for our home. Then we based it on her income alone (she bringing home the bigger bucks) and we found that we spend 19% of her net income on housing. 28% DTI is a nice number, but that's not really what you have to work with at the end of the pay period. I've been working with cash for so long that I always revert to how much actual cash we get vs how much the governement says we get paid. So I chose the amount after taxes, 401k, charitible contributions, health savings account, etc., and it worked out to ~19% of her take home pay. Using that as a standard, we easily afford the house payment, association dues, utility and garbage bills, and still have a nice sum for personal savings. We aren't wealthy, but we live comfortably and well within our means.</p>
<p>I hope that cleared things up.</p>