[quote author="tmare" date=1252586507]When are we going to learn to separate politics from lifestyle? I guess never. Especially when so many of our politicians run their campaigns as a reflection of their lifestyles. Does anyone really believe any of these people who say they support "family values" (whatever that currently means)? I guess I'd rather hear their political opinions. I don't really need to hear about how they are a "family man" with 2-3 children, blah, blah, blah. I'm sorry, but I could give a rat's a** if a man cheats on his wife, it's just too much a part of what happens, if we like it or not, I don't want to hear about it, I want him (or her) to do his (or her) job. This kind of thing is truly just an American phenomenon. What would happen if our politicians just did their jobs and we didn't have to hear about their personal lives? I don't think the whole system would blow up. The problem is that these guys should understand the system as it is and if they are this unbelievably hypocritical and they can't shut up, they deserve what they get.</blockquote>
While I can understand your frustration with what should be a "private matter", the reality is that these people chose public service as a career. In doing so, they gave up their right to have "private matters" remain private. Let's leave the moral question aside for a moment, and focus on the more practical problems; blackmail, corruption, favoritism. Was he getting sex as part of a lobbying effort, looking to swing key votes? Was the sex part of a set-up to later force him to take a specific policy position? Was he just gettin' lucky with a woman who wanted inside info or was it pay back for past votes? At a basic level, a guy who will cheat on his wife will also cheat on his taxes... on his partners... on his constituents. It shows that he is willing to compromise his integrity for instant gratification, completely ignoring the damage he is doing in the process.
At the very least, it shows incredibly bad judgment, and I certainly don't want anyone with judgment that bad to be in charge of anything to do with government.