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Panda said:Sorry Liarloan,
There were series of sad news coming out of South Korea recently and decided not to post it here. I try to keep my posts positive and uplifting whenever I can.
Malcolm Gladwell wrote in one of this books... (I believe it was from Outliers) that the countries perceived to be happiest are the saddest inside, and the countries perceived to the saddest. Not his exact words, but something similar.
Liar Loan said:Panda said:Sorry Liarloan,
There were series of sad news coming out of South Korea recently and decided not to post it here. I try to keep my posts positive and uplifting whenever I can.
Malcolm Gladwell wrote in one of this books... (I believe it was from Outliers) that the countries perceived to be happiest are the saddest inside, and the countries perceived to the saddest. Not his exact words, but something similar.
What do you think the root cause of unhappiness in S. Korea is?
Panda said:Similar to LA, the image of looking good in the outside is very important in South Korea, while they may be hurting or depressed inside.
LL, not sure if you are interested in reading this, but the article should give an answer to your question. Around 75% of the Korean Americans like myself come from a Christian upbringing, but that number is less than 25% in South Korea.
https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/christianity-quit-growing-korea/
"Now South Korea is developed and wealthy?Seoul, the cosmetic and plastic surgery capital of the world, ?is like New York but five-times cleaner,? Um said. ?Everything is new and modern and well-wired.?
?In Korea, money is winning,? Park said. ?Their aim in life is to be rich, to succeed. . . . Money is the No. 1 enemy in Korean Christianity now.?
Ro agrees. ?The biggest idol we have in Korea is mammonism?money. Our mentality, our worldview, our values didn?t catch up to the rapid growth of the economy.?
Liar Loan said:Panda said:Sorry Liarloan,
There were series of sad news coming out of South Korea recently and decided not to post it here. I try to keep my posts positive and uplifting whenever I can.
Malcolm Gladwell wrote in one of this books... (I believe it was from Outliers) that the countries perceived to be happiest are the saddest inside, and the countries perceived to the saddest. Not his exact words, but something similar.
What do you think the root cause of unhappiness in S. Korea is?
Panda said:Similar to LA, the image of looking good in the outside is very important in South Korea, while they may be hurting or depressed inside.
LL, not sure if you are interested in reading this, but the article should give an answer to your question. Around 75% of the Korean Americans like myself come from a Christian upbringing, but that number is less than 25% in South Korea.
https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/christianity-quit-growing-korea/
"Now South Korea is developed and wealthy?Seoul, the cosmetic and plastic surgery capital of the world, ?is like New York but five-times cleaner,? Um said. ?Everything is new and modern and well-wired.?
?In Korea, money is winning,? Park said. ?Their aim in life is to be rich, to succeed. . . . Money is the No. 1 enemy in Korean Christianity now.?
Ro agrees. ?The biggest idol we have in Korea is mammonism?money. Our mentality, our worldview, our values didn?t catch up to the rapid growth of the economy.?
Liar Loan said:Panda said:Sorry Liarloan,
There were series of sad news coming out of South Korea recently and decided not to post it here. I try to keep my posts positive and uplifting whenever I can.
Malcolm Gladwell wrote in one of this books... (I believe it was from Outliers) that the countries perceived to be happiest are the saddest inside, and the countries perceived to the saddest. Not his exact words, but something similar.
What do you think the root cause of unhappiness in S. Korea is?
Mety said:However, no matter how well it seems to be developed or advanced, the reality is that more and more people find themselves in modern symptoms like depression and ADD.
Liar Loan said:Mety said:However, no matter how well it seems to be developed or advanced, the reality is that more and more people find themselves in modern symptoms like depression and ADD.
I agree with most of what you wrote, but I have a quibble with what you wrote about ADD. Two of my four kids have it and it is something that runs in my family, but prior to the 90's was not recognized or diagnosed. In the old days, you were just considered to be a "bad apple" if you had it.
It's also not the result of little kids that are hyper being over-diagnosed as is sometimes portrayed in the media, but is actually a physiological disorder where the brain's synapses do not fire correctly. Without medicine, my son would not be able to pass any subjects in school due to his lack of ability to focus. It's not something he chooses, but something he has absolutely no control over. It's also something he will probably have to deal with well into adulthood.
Believe me, the last thing I want to be doing is giving my son medicine, but it's a choice between doing that or jeopardizing his future because he can't perform even at a basic level in school. With the medicine, he is able to get mostly A's and B's versus D's and F's, but even with the medicine he does things more slowly and needs much more individual attention from my wife and I, and the teachers.
This is going to be a long journey for us. However, without being diagnosed and receiving medicine he would be at the very bottom of the academic pool.
Liar Loan said:Panda said:Similar to LA, the image of looking good in the outside is very important in South Korea, while they may be hurting or depressed inside.
LL, not sure if you are interested in reading this, but the article should give an answer to your question. Around 75% of the Korean Americans like myself come from a Christian upbringing, but that number is less than 25% in South Korea.
https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/christianity-quit-growing-korea/
"Now South Korea is developed and wealthy?Seoul, the cosmetic and plastic surgery capital of the world, ?is like New York but five-times cleaner,? Um said. ?Everything is new and modern and well-wired.?
?In Korea, money is winning,? Park said. ?Their aim in life is to be rich, to succeed. . . . Money is the No. 1 enemy in Korean Christianity now.?
Ro agrees. ?The biggest idol we have in Korea is mammonism?money. Our mentality, our worldview, our values didn?t catch up to the rapid growth of the economy.?
Liar Loan said:Panda said:Sorry Liarloan,
There were series of sad news coming out of South Korea recently and decided not to post it here. I try to keep my posts positive and uplifting whenever I can.
Malcolm Gladwell wrote in one of this books... (I believe it was from Outliers) that the countries perceived to be happiest are the saddest inside, and the countries perceived to the saddest. Not his exact words, but something similar.
What do you think the root cause of unhappiness in S. Korea is?
Thank you for your answer. I will check out that article when I have some time.
My perception was that S. Korea was over 50% Christian - I think there are some stats that still say that, maybe from Pew research - so it surprises me to see that it is closer to 25%. I also assumed that the strong Christian community of Korean Americans was a mirror of what existed in S. Korea, so it also surprises me to learn that there are big differences there.
I suppose a lot can change in even one generation apart, where Korean Americans that started out mostly poor & working class in the 70's & 80's have taken one path, working hard to become successful in this country and retaining their faith, while Korea's residents have taken another path based on the easy wealth occurring around them, leading to a decline in faith.
This is a very interesting topic.
Mety said:Liar Loan said:Mety said:However, no matter how well it seems to be developed or advanced, the reality is that more and more people find themselves in modern symptoms like depression and ADD.
I agree with most of what you wrote, but I have a quibble with what you wrote about ADD. Two of my four kids have it and it is something that runs in my family, but prior to the 90's was not recognized or diagnosed. In the old days, you were just considered to be a "bad apple" if you had it.
It's also not the result of little kids that are hyper being over-diagnosed as is sometimes portrayed in the media, but is actually a physiological disorder where the brain's synapses do not fire correctly. Without medicine, my son would not be able to pass any subjects in school due to his lack of ability to focus. It's not something he chooses, but something he has absolutely no control over. It's also something he will probably have to deal with well into adulthood.
Believe me, the last thing I want to be doing is giving my son medicine, but it's a choice between doing that or jeopardizing his future because he can't perform even at a basic level in school. With the medicine, he is able to get mostly A's and B's versus D's and F's, but even with the medicine he does things more slowly and needs much more individual attention from my wife and I, and the teachers.
This is going to be a long journey for us. However, without being diagnosed and receiving medicine he would be at the very bottom of the academic pool.
I'm sorry for writing ADD in such manner. I should have thought a little more. I also find Depression something many around us deal with that needs medication regardless of it being modern or not.
We all deal with something that was not common before or just was not aware of as much, but I don't see them as a fabrication out of modern society. I do see them as something we need to help and use medication for if needed that we need to love more for those who are in need.
While I'm not against using science and medication to help us improve, I'm also with you that giving medication to our children is something that could be really painful. I truly pray for your children and your family.
Liar Loan said:Mety said:However, no matter how well it seems to be developed or advanced, the reality is that more and more people find themselves in modern symptoms like depression and ADD.
I agree with most of what you wrote, but I have a quibble with what you wrote about ADD. Two of my four kids have it and it is something that runs in my family, but prior to the 90's was not recognized or diagnosed. In the old days, you were just considered to be a "bad apple" if you had it.
It's also not the result of little kids that are hyper being over-diagnosed as is sometimes portrayed in the media, but is actually a physiological disorder where the brain's synapses do not fire correctly. Without medicine, my son would not be able to pass any subjects in school due to his lack of ability to focus. It's not something he chooses, but something he has absolutely no control over. It's also something he will probably have to deal with well into adulthood.
Believe me, the last thing I want to be doing is giving my son medicine, but it's a choice between doing that or jeopardizing his future because he can't perform even at a basic level in school. With the medicine, he is able to get mostly A's and B's versus D's and F's, but even with the medicine he does things more slowly and needs much more individual attention from my wife and I, and the teachers.
This is going to be a long journey for us. However, without being diagnosed and receiving medicine he would be at the very bottom of the academic pool.
Liar Loan said:Panda said:Sorry Liarloan,
There were series of sad news coming out of South Korea recently and decided not to post it here. I try to keep my posts positive and uplifting whenever I can.
Malcolm Gladwell wrote in one of this books... (I believe it was from Outliers) that the countries perceived to be happiest are the saddest inside, and the countries perceived to the saddest. Not his exact words, but something similar.
What do you think the root cause of unhappiness in S. Korea is?